Self Reflection – A Valuable Exercise

Unexamined mind

Over the past week or so I have been putting some extra energy into my coaching business, taking it to the next level.

I was going through some old workshop material and I came across this wonderful self reflection exercise that Deepak Chopra shared some time ago. It is very telling – I hope you find it valuable.

Self Reflection:

Step One: Think about someone you find attractive. On the left side of a piece of paper, list ten or more qualities that you love in that person. Write quickly. The secret is to not give your conscious mind time to edit your thoughts. You can put down as many qualities as you wish, but don’t stop until you have at least ten.

Step Two: Now focus on somebody who totally irritates you, annoys you, or makes you uncomfortable in some way. Why does this person infuriate you so much? On the right side of the paper, list ten or more of their undesirable qualities.

Step Three: Look at your list for the person you find attractive and circle the three qualities that you find most appealing about him or her. Then look at the list on the right side of the paper and circle the three qualities you find most repulsive.

 

Now read the six words you circled out loud. You are all of these qualities.

Once you see yourself in others, you will find it much easier to connect with them and maintain emotional wellbeing.

Let me know how this went for you.

Abundant Blessings,

Kym.

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