I love movies and one of my favourites is Holiday staring Cameron Dias, Kate Winslet, Jack Black and Eli Wallace. I love the scene where Eli Wallace is saying to Kate Winslet, “ You’re supposed to be the leading lady in your own life, for God’s sake! … You, I can tell, are the leading lady, but for some reason, you’re behaving like the best friend. … These are powerful words that I certainly can resonate with. For some reason I bought into the herd mentality of being the “ best friend” to everyone in my life and therefore never really going after what I truly wanted. That’s not to say some areas of my life I absolutely did achieve exactly what I set out to achieve and I was the lead role in those areas.
That was before I discovered Personal Development and in particular the online program I sell.
It takes time to create new ways of being especially when you have acted a certain way for many decades however having the resolve to become my own lead role and working consistently on my goals my vibration, my mindset and self compassion I am gaining momentum on that lead role.
Are you the leading lady(man) or the best friend?